Not your Nanas

Oh, lovey!
He’s not your soulmate.
There’s no such  thing.
He is not the love of your life,
You don’t only get “the one”.

What you get is the ability to love, and that is enough...

 And that starts with you, and cascades outward like ripples on a pond, always in flow...sometimes brushing over rocks, other times lapping at shores, sometimes it threatens to run dry and sometimes it overflows...but it is always there...

 So no, you won’t break if he leaves...

 He was like the shiny surface hit by the sun, glistening and reflecting to you the things you needed to know, a mirror held up so you could become aware and grow.

Recognise who he is, and why he came.

Remember, he only spouts words of love and desire if he's the one that profits. He was selling fabrications as truth, and promises as possibilities, but his heart was empty, and his ego huge. He was flash not substance, quoting Rumi & Kahlil Gibran, wielding their words to soften your heart for he didn’t know his own. I swear, he’d quote Jesus if it cast him in a better light.

Beware, lil girl,
he is the lesson.
The one titled:
“Who to Avoid.”

If you want sincerity and love,
study this man well...
then unlearn everything about him.

But listen:
the level up begins the moment you step away:

The ultimate move
isn’t leaving his side...
it’s emptying your mind
of the emptiness that came with him.

The New You

Now you know:
not all men like women.
Not all men are meant to be loved.

The level up is choosing you first, not who you choose next.

The next chapter is all about you... you get to design your own life ... one built on genuine, quiet substance, with no room for empty words.